How to Feel Comfortable and Confident in Front of the Camera at Your Portrait Session

For many people, stepping in front of a camera can feel intimidating. You might worry about how you look, how to pose, or if the photos will turn out the way you imagine. But the good news is that confidence in front of the camera isn’t something you’re born with—it’s something you can develop! As a photographer, I’ve worked with many clients who started out nervous but ended up loving their photoshoot experience. Here are my best tips to help you feel relaxed and confident during your portrait session.

1. Choose a Photographer You Trust

Feeling comfortable starts with working with a photographer who makes you feel at ease. Look for someone whose work you admire and whose personality makes you feel relaxed. A great photographer will guide you through poses, help you laugh, and create a fun, stress-free environment.

2. Wear Something That Makes You Feel Good

Your outfit plays a big role in your confidence. Choose something that you feel great in—whether that’s a casual, flowy dress, a structured blazer, or your favorite jeans and a T-shirt. Avoid anything too tight, uncomfortable, or completely out of your usual style. When you feel good in what you’re wearing, it shows in your photos.

Comfy clothing will almost always look good on you BECAUSE you're comfy, BUT also try and be stylish, to add that extra factor to your portrait session

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3. Practice in the Mirror

It may feel silly, but practicing expressions and poses in front of a mirror can help you see what works best for you. Try tilting your head slightly, smiling with and without teeth, and relaxing your shoulders. This will help you feel more prepared and natural when the camera starts clicking.

4. Focus on Your Posture

Good posture can instantly boost your confidence and make you look more poised in photos. Keep your shoulders relaxed, elongate your neck, and slightly push your chin forward to avoid a double-chin effect. A relaxed but upright stance will make a huge difference.

Posture will make your photos turn out bold and intentional, naturally making your portrait session turn out great!

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5. Engage With the Camera (or Your Photographer!)

Instead of thinking about the camera as an intimidating object, treat it as a friend. If making eye contact with the lens feels awkward, focus on your photographer instead. A great tip is to think of someone or something that makes you happy—this will help bring out natural and genuine expressions.

6. Keep Moving

One of the biggest mistakes people make is standing stiffly in front of the camera. Instead of freezing up, try subtle movements—shift your weight, turn slightly, play with your hair, or laugh. These natural motions will create more dynamic and effortless photos.

Something as simple as walking towards the camera can make for really great shots in your portrait session

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7. Take Deep Breaths and Relax

Nervousness can make you tense up, which shows in photos. Take deep breaths, exhale slowly, and remind yourself that this is a fun experience. Your photographer is there to guide you, not judge you.

8. Trust the Photographer (And Yourself)

Remember that you don’t have to be a model to take great photos. Your photographer will help find the most flattering angles and lighting for you. Trust in their expertise and allow yourself to enjoy the experience.

9. Have Fun With It!

The best photos come from moments of genuine joy. Don’t be afraid to laugh, move, and enjoy yourself. A positive mindset can completely transform how you feel and how your photos turn out.

The most beautiful shots end up being the ones where fun is being had! SO have loads of fun at your portrait session!

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7. Take Deep Breaths and Relax

Nervousness can make you tense up, which shows in photos. Take deep breaths, exhale slowly, and remind yourself that this is a fun experience. Your photographer is there to guide you, not judge you.

8. Trust the Photographer (And Yourself)

Remember that you don’t have to be a model to take great photos. Your photographer will help find the most flattering angles and lighting for you. Trust in their expertise and allow yourself to enjoy the experience.

9. Have Fun With It!

The best photos come from moments of genuine joy. Don’t be afraid to laugh, move, and enjoy yourself. A positive mindset can completely transform how you feel and how your photos turn out.

Final Thoughts

Feeling comfortable in front of the camera takes a little practice, but with the right mindset and preparation, you can walk into your portrait session with confidence. Your photoshoot is a celebration of you—so relax, enjoy the moment, and trust that your best self will shine through!

Ready to book a portrait session? Let’s create stunning portraits that capture your true personality. Get in touch today!

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