Family photoshoots are a wonderful way to capture precious memories, but let’s be honest—getting kids to cooperate can sometimes feel like a challenge! The good news is that with a little preparation, you can set your children up for success and ensure a smooth, enjoyable experience for everyone. Here are my top tips to help prepare your kids for your upcoming family session.
1. Make Sure They’re Well-Rested
A tired child is often an uncooperative child, so timing is everything! If your shoot is scheduled for late afternoon or early evening, make sure your little ones get a solid nap beforehand. Well-rested kids are more likely to be happy, engaged, and willing to participate.
Energized little girls at this family photoshoot
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A little champ running up and down enjoying his family photoshoot
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2. Keep Sugar and Energy-Boosting Snacks to a Minimum
While snacks are important to keep kids happy, be mindful of what they eat before the session. Avoid too much sugar or anything that might give them a sudden burst of energy, making it harder for them to sit still. Instead, opt for balanced snacks like fruit, cheese, or crackers to keep their energy steady.
3. Bring Small Incentives
Kids respond well to rewards! Bring a small treat or promise them something fun after the shoot—like ice cream or extra playtime. Let them know that if they cooperate, they’ll get a little surprise. This turns the photoshoot into something exciting rather than a chore.
4. Choose Comfortable Outfits
Uncomfortable clothing can make kids fussy. Choose soft, breathable fabrics and make sure their outfits fit well. Avoid anything itchy or restrictive. If they’re not used to fancy clothes, opt for a more relaxed look that still fits your family’s aesthetic.
Cutest little outfit that fits comfortably
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Loose Tee and shorts, which matches so well to the theme of the family phooshoot
A dungaree that perfectly matches mum
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5. Keep Their Hands and Faces Clean
Little ones love to explore, and that often means sticky fingers and messy faces! Bring wipes to quickly clean up any smudges before the shoot. Also, if your child sucks their thumb or holds a favorite toy, keep that in mind when planning outfits—sometimes small details like this can affect the photos.
6. Avoid Last-Minute Stress and Rushing
Try to have everything ready in advance—outfits laid out, hair done early, and any necessary snacks packed. Rushing to get out the door can lead to stress, which kids will pick up on. If you’re calm, they’re more likely to be as well. Also BE ON TIME as a rushed session can be extremely stressful.
7. Stay Positive and Avoid Pressure
Children feed off their parents’ energy. If you get frustrated or show signs of stress, they may become resistant. Instead of forcing them to pose, let them ease into it naturally. Sometimes the best photos happen when kids are just being themselves!
8. Let Them Have Fun!
A family shoot should feel more like a fun activity than a chore. Play, laugh, and interact naturally with your children. Candid moments often make for the most beautiful images, so embrace the spontaneity and let their personalities shine.
Dad and his son exploring the water's wonders
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A littlegirl and her mom having a cute fun moment
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9. Bring a Favorite Toy or Comfort Item (If Needed)
If your child has a favorite small stuffed animal or toy, bringing it along can help them feel secure. We can even incorporate it into a few shots if they refuse to part with it—it makes for a great memory!
Final Thoughts
With a little planning and the right mindset, your family photoshoot can be a fun and stress-free experience. The goal isn’t perfection—it’s capturing genuine moments of love, connection, and joy. So take a deep breath, enjoy the process, and let’s create some beautiful memories together!
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